We’re looking for a kind and patient volunteer to spend a little time with a gentle, quietly spoken woman in her 60s. She would really value some friendly company and a relaxed chat.
She enjoys simple, calming activities like watching TV game shows, having her nails painted, or a soothing hand massage. It’s the small, unhurried moments that mean the most to her.
She can take a little time to feel at ease with new people, so this role would suit someone who is calm, patient, and happy to go at her pace. Once she feels comfortable, your visits can become something she genuinely looks forward to.
Visits take place in her home, where support staff are always nearby if you need anything, so you’ll feel well supported.
If you enjoy creating a sense of connection, even in quiet ways, and want to make a real difference to someone’s week, we’d love to hear from you.
With just one hour every other month, you could help reduce loneliness and bring some enjoyment to someone's day.
Do get in touch with any questions.
We offer a lifelong befriending service for adults with learning disabilities. Matching the skills and interests of passionate visitors with the specific hobbies and interests of the people we visit. Visitors visit six times a year to create a 1-2-1 connection, offer companionship, encourage people to do the things they enjoy and check-in on their wellbeing. In many cases, the visitor is the only person in someone’s life who isn’t paid to be there for them.
This is a Check in visit role, meaning that your visits are likely to be short - on average 30 minutes or less. Some of the people we visit may be unable to communicate with words. Sometimes the person might choose not to meet with their visitor. Your visit is however very important, and these are some of the things you could be doing on a visit:
• Checking in on their well-being and speak to support staff to get an update on how the person is doing
• You might be able to bring a treat that the person enjoys, like chocolates or fruit.
• Some people we support enjoy sensory experiences so items that will stimulate their senses can also help you create a sense of connection with the person you visit. Your volunteer manager will be happy to help you with ideas and suggestions.
As a Mencap volunteer visitor you will be:
- Friendly and approachable
- Accepting of others who might be different to yourself
- Reliable and patient
- Passionate about supporting people with a with a learning disability.
If you have questions about volunteering with Mencap, please don’t hesitate to get in touch with us: [email protected]
Apply here: https://volunteering.mencap.org.uk/opportunities/125089-mencap-volunteer-visitor-reminiscing-chats-and-jelly-beans-hastings-2026-09-30